Child’s First Visit

The first appointment is generally short and gentle, and is designed to help your child feel at ease. The pediatric dentist will count and examine the teeth, check the gums, jaw, and bite, and look for any early signs of decay or developmental concerns. Many young children are examined while sitting on a parent’s lap.

Depending on your child’s age and comfort level, the visit may also include a gentle cleaning, a review of proper brushing and flossing technique, and a discussion of fluoride needs and diet. For very young children, the first visit may simply focus on a friendly introduction to the office and the dental team.

• Use positive, simple language. Avoid words like “hurt,” “shot,” or “needle” that might create unnecessary worry.
• Schedule the visit for the morning, when your child is well rested and more cooperative.
• Let your child bring a favorite stuffed animal, blanket or toy for comfort.
• Never use a dental visit as a punishment or a threat.
• Stay calm and relaxed yourself – children easily pick up on a parent’s anxiety.
• Read a book or watch a video about visiting the dentist together beforehand.

Starting dental visits early builds a foundation of trust and familiarity that makes future appointments far less stressful. It also allows the pediatric dentist to track growth and tooth eruption over time, catch cavities and bite issues while they are minor, and give parents personalized guidance on caring for their child’s teeth at each stage of development.